Letting Go of a Bad Relationship in a Month? is it Even Possible?
Written by admin on March 1, 2010 – 6:43 pm -
Letting go is hard to do, but letting go of a bad relationship logically should be easy. The fact that the relationship could be characterized as “bad” hints that something was not right with the relationship. It’s good to let go of things that are bad for you or that causes you more tears than pleasure, yet for many people letting go of a bad relationship can be excruciatingly painful. Just because the relationship was bad for whatever number of reasons does not meant that deep emotions are not attached.
The first step in letting go of a bad relationship is to come to terms with why the relationship was bad for you, and to admit that you are better off on your own. It is easy to keep the blinders on and tell yourself that it wasn’t that bad. If you have gotten out of the relationship then it’s time to start letting go of a bad relationship by admitting it was in fact bad for you.
Sit down with a pen and paper sometime when you can be alone with your thoughts. Just start listing randomly all the things you hated about that relationship or about your ex. If there was any physical or mental abuse then that goes number one, top of the list. Violence and emotional torture put your health and your entire life in danger and should never be tolerated. Letting go of a bad relationship that included any sort of violence needs to be done immediately so you do not convince yourself to go back into the relationship.
The list could get quite lengthy for some relationships, but let it all flow out. Then read it over a few times and let those bad moments sink into your brain. You can keep this list for future moments of weakness when you think you want to go back to that bad relationship and undo all of your hard work letting go of a bad relationship. These moments of weakness may come often in the beginning, especially if your ex is begging you to come back and promising everything will be different the next time around.
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Just to make sure you get my points that these methods had been working for me and my clients, however it might not work for every case. Anyway these tactics on letting go of a bad relationship are extracted from a great book which I had reviewed in my signature below.
Wishing For You,
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