Can a marriage survive infidelity if the husband hasn’t ended the affair and is it best to just ignore affair?
Written by admin on March 20, 2009 – 4:18 am -Does it mean that wife has accepted affair if she didn’t file for divorce?
Unfortunately she is living a nightmare. Doesn’t mean she accepted it. And a marriage can survive if both are willing to work hard, be honest and restore trust after the husband has ended affair and re commit himself to his wife.
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By Shieldgambit on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
ask her
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By BabeHeart on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
We don’t know the chick so can’t say how she feels or what her intentions are. Try asking her.
Having done nothing may mean she’s going to stick it out because there’s some benefit to staying married to the guy…or that she’s working on something that she hasn’t revealed yet.
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By Katrina D on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
Are there children involved?
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By smills0205 on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
No, ignoring the affair is certainly not the answer. If the affair ends and the couple reconciles then the affair cannot be used in a divorce against the husband. If you are sure there is an affair going on, your best course is to tell him to end it now or to get out of the marital home. Chances of repairing the marriage are not real good, so good luck. If you are going to try to save your marriage, demand the affair end and seek marital counseling.
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By kim h on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
It might survive for him because he has all he wants and all he needs. Why she would stay there and put up with it, I don’t really know. She is going to be miserable the rest of her life. I would guess she has accepted it since she ignores it.
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By Shay on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
It can survive but should it survive? Why would a woman want to tolerate that? It doesn’t sound healthy–Unless the woman is totally dependent on the husband for some reason it seems like she would want a husband who was faithful…
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By Blessed21 on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
if she ignores the affair it will never end. not suggesting divorce either. tell him until the affair is over and he’s ready to be her husband again he has to move out. and don’t be leniant.
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By jude on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
wives usually don’t accept and affair un;ess she is having one too.maybe she is staying for financial reasons.
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By My Heart Belā¤ngs To Him on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
I know of people that lived together and had an affair openly for over 5 years. One of the people having the affair was quite wealthy. When the divorce finally happened the spouse (not having the affair) was rewarded all the money.
The spouse that lost the money has regret and is unhappy even after remarriage. It's not cool to have an affair and abandon your family. It may seem like the wife accepts the affair but the court will decide in the end.
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By Kandiee on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
Well I doubt she has accepted the affair ,,,
If she knows of the affair , its very possible she may be starting
divorce poceedings .
And why would a wife accept you fooling around .?
If you are still in the affair then I think you need to either
let that go , or accept the fact that your wife is wiser
and knows and has already taken steps to get rid of you .
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Married for 14 years , husband played this game , I got half
of everything , You Play , You Pay
By Rusty on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
How do you know what his wife thinks, what he has told her? You are taking a giant leap in assuming she has accepted this affair. He’s probably convinced her it is over with you and you that is not over. Nice way to have his cake and eat it to wouldn’t you say?
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By rachel_brown674 on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
unless the wife is really abel to forgive and accept the marriage the way it is then Absolutely not . and to be honest it is so hard to gain any trust back so that will always be between the couple. Even if nothing is ever said about it again it will manifest its self in the relationship and it is bound for destruction since the day the affair began… Specially if the affair is still continuing . That means he is most likely in love with that person but feels secure in his safety net within the marriage . Maybe bound in the marriage by children or fiances but needs more from a relationship so he went else where. Sorry good luck
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By Pixie48 on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
It’s their decision…nothin’ to see here move along.
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By Daddy's Girl on Mar 20, 2009 | Reply
Unfortunately she is living a nightmare. Doesn’t mean she accepted it. And a marriage can survive if both are willing to work hard, be honest and restore trust after the husband has ended affair and re commit himself to his wife.
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