Cheaters, Cheating and Infidelity….WATCH OUT!!!

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If your spouse is a bigamist, can you change filing status from married joint to head of household?

If you filed you original return as married filing joint and you discover that you should have NEVER EVER filed married/joint because your were never legally married because your “alleged spouse” was already married (and not divorced) to someone else, can you change your filing status then? I live in Louisiana, and common law marriage is never considered legal in any way. I can’t file injured spouse because I was not the spouse. I want to ammend my returns for those years.

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What happens when an indian illegal bigamist alien is caught by the immigration department?

What happens when an indian illegal bigamist alien is caught by the immigration department ?
what happens to the pregnant us citizen wife whom he married for citizenship without divorcing his indian wife?
can he rejoin his family back in india?
what can the indian wife do to bring him back from the custody?
evidence of indian marriage are with the immigration department,after which they caught him,the us citizen girl n family also knew about his marriage.the usa marriage was for money.now the us citizen is pregnant.

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How To Prevent Emotional Infidelity

Prevent emotional infidelity from ruining your relationship by taking these precautions.

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Surviving Infidelity: Keys to Overcoming and Coping with an Affair

It IS possible to survive an affair and infidelity. You may not feel like it is, if you’ve just discovered that your spouse or partner is having an affair. Chances are, if you’ve only just discovered the affair, or if suspicions of infidelity are so powerful they are driving you mad, you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about. However, there are specific steps or stages, mental shifts you will go through, that will launch you through this infidelity crisis.

Survival may seem a completely fitting word. It truly feels like emotional, sometimes even physical survival. The pain and fear can be excruciating and debilitating. It strikes at the heart of who you are, or  thought you were. Surviving an affair and infidelity means you make shifts in your thinking. You see, there are many common misconceptions about surviving an affair that make surviving an affair and the healing and recovering from infidelity much, much more difficult.

And, as you begin to make the shifts, you begin to survive the affair, begin to feel relief and a new confidence in your ability to say and do exactly what you must to not merely survive the affair but know what  you can do to possibly stop the affair, begin your healing process and perhaps save your marriage or relationship.

Surviving affair Shift #1: Avoid the Killer Mistakes Most Make to Prolong the Affair and their Misery .

A shift most have to make in surviving an affair is how they initially approach their cheating husband or cheating wife. In my free ecourse I outline 7 Killer Mistakes that prolong the affair, the misery and agony. This free e-course begins shaping your thinking in a way that gives you the first steps of change that will give you the personal power you need in surviving and eventually overcoming and thriving through the infidelity and affair. For instance, you will shift past: saying I love you.. and know exactly why you are doing that suggesting counseling…and know exactly why this doesn’t work saying you’ve changed…and be able to see the positive impact on him/her of NOT using this phrase and more…. and begin employing words and actions which have the best chance of stopping the affair and bring about healing.

Surviving affair Shift #2: You CAN’T DIRECTLY stop the affair.

In order to survive infidelity and an affair means that you have to shift away from the thought and the effort that you can stop the affair. Attempting to directly stop the affair is often a disaster waiting to happen. Sorry, that’s the bad news. The good news: Many people often end the affair by using “indirect” approaches. These strategies often work, to the astonishment of the offended partner or spouse. For example, you can learn the powerful strategy of “backing off” when applied to a “My Marriage Made Me Do It” type of affair. Again, surviving an affair means making some shifts that right now you may not even consider to be possible.

Surviving affair Shift #3: Overcoming the Stigma and Isolation of being the “Wounded Spouse”
Another shift in surviving an affair is to reach out. Of course, it’s not easy, at least not in the beginning stages of discovering infidelity, to reach out to family and friends for support and encouragement. However, many people find support and a listening ear to be indispensable – certainly in those very early hours and days – in surviving infidelity and the affair.

As unreasonable as it seems, many people feel embarrassment and humiliation when they initially discover that their spouse is having an affair. They don’t want to tell anyone. (They also think that if the affair ends and the marriage is restored, it would NOT be helpful to have others know what happened.) And so, many suffer in silence or make knee-jerk, uninformed decisions that harm the process.

Surviving affair Shift #4: Knowledge becomes Power
Surviving an affair means you seek out knowledge. And, this knowledge will generate shifts in your thinking about infidelity and affairs that will give you newfound courage, power and hope. Affairs are  exceeding complex. Did you know that? The grocery store check-out tabloids don’t convey the complexity of affair relationships. There are different kinds of affairs, each with varying nuances and different motivations. I outline 7 distinctive kinds of affairs in my e-book, “Break Free From the Affair.” This introduction to infidelity will jump-start your change and healing process. Surviving an affair is often dependent on knowing exactly what you need to say and do in terms of the specific kind of affair facing you. In conjunction with the 7 types of affairs, I outline specific approaches to use with each different type of affair you may encounter.

Warning: Using a strategy for one type of affair may work but may be disaster when used for a different type of affair.

Surviving affair Shift #5: Make the right decisions.
Decision making is vital to surviving an affair or infidelity. There are all kinds of decision-making situations that you will encounter. For example, to truly save the marriage, if that is what you want to do, it is imperative to first seriously entertain the question, should you stay or should you go? Or, should s/he stay? Or, should s/he go? Maybe you never even thought in those terms. Or, maybe, you simply don’t WANT to think in those terms. You must also ask the question: “Do I truly want to save the marriage (want to be married to him/her) or do I want the marriage for my own personal needs?” There is a huge difference (your cheating husband or wife will intuitively know). Take some time with this question before major decisions and strategies are formulated.

Surviving infidelity and an affair in a healthy and proactive manner forces you to alter your thinking, uncomfortably at first, to give you the most potential for resolving the crisis, restoring your sanity and potentially salvaging the marriage.

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Polygamy, Bigamy, and Marraige Records

The big difference between polygamy and bigamy are the marraige records.  Bigamy is actually a criminal offense because two marriages are registered and usually unknown to at least one member of the wedding party/parties.  Oftentimes, bigamy is the result of carelessness during a divorce proceeding.  Very rarely are cases of bigamy committed by a woman.

However, some bigamists actually knowingly stay married to two women at the same time without either party knowing the difference.  I remember reading a story about a man who was married to two women who decorated both their houses in the same wallpaper and carpet to save some money.  How thoughtful!

If you are a polygamist, all parties enter into a consensual Plural Marriage.  It is usually of little concern to have the marraige records stating each marriage since the government view of marriage would also entail accepting the government view of divorce.  In a polygamist relationship, there is no need for divorce records because it simply isn’t recognized.  If you want to remarry, you simply remarry.

Maybe I’ve gotten a little off track here or maybe I’ve just watched too many episodes of “Big Love” on HBO (a series about a fundamentalist Mormon sect in Salt Lake City).  My point is not to become an advocate for polygamy.  Rather, I am presenting the difference between polygamy and bigamy.  Why?  Because you can never be too careful today.

There’s a reason that there are so many national databases for marriage records online.  There is also a reason that so many people are trying to do a little private investigation work of their own.  Fraud is one of the most common crimes committed today.

Just go online and look at the statistics.  Fraud, identity theft, and credit card theft go hand in hand.  Did you know that over 20 million people go to at least one online dating site a month?  Did you also know that it is increasingly popular for married men to try out these sites for a tryst?  Furthermore, did you know that most married men never tell their status?

It is increasingly common for everyday people to perform background checks on their neighbors, boyfriends, girlfriends, and people they work with.  In many cases, it could mean saving your life or at least heartache.  Before you get head over heels in love, it is always a good idea to do some background research first.  Be sure to check all marraige records, divorce records, criminal records, and court records before you invest your safety and time in a relationship.

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How are the two Tiger Woods incidents connected? How did the media become aware of his infidelity?

I heard about the car crash a long time ago, but I’m unsure how it’s related to the Woods scandal. Was he driving to the woman’s home at the time of the crash?… sorry I don’t have any cable at my house so I’ve been missing all of the news stories on it.
I know I can look it up online, however I thought it’d be much more convenient if someone could tell me how the crash & his infidelity are all connected in his or her own words. thanks!

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Infidelity: What every couple should know (Part 1)

Dr. Harley provides helpful information about infidelity and how to recover. marriagebuilders.com

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How do you know if perceptions of infidelity are true or if you’re going crazy?

I’ve been having trouble distinguishing truth from what’s in my head… It would seem as though my wife is fooling around (not sex) with one of my best friends. Now I know when someone has strong feelings of infidelity, 9 out of 10 times they’re correct, but how can I tell if it’s really happening without asking? She would lie anyway. I might just be misinterpreting the vague signals though. I’ve made an accusation before regarding someone else, and I can’t keep doing that based on observations.

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What are some songs about infidelity and betrayal?

I’m doing a project and I need some songs about betrayal and infidelity leading to a downfall. like if one thing goes wrong everything else does, the “domino effect” “snowball effect” etc. It can be symbolic too. Suggestions?

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