6 Responses to “bad relationships?”

1. By Lunaeclipz on Mar 7, 2010 | Reply

   To collect their things and leave-no point in putting a child through that

2. By Sharon C on Mar 7, 2010 | Reply

   Get out and give yourself a chance to find someone whom you can be happy with…You are just wasting your time….Good Luck…

3. By Linda C on Mar 7, 2010 | Reply

   Try and talk out your problems. When a child is involved, the child is the one who gets hurt in the end. No relationship is bad unless you want it to be bad.

4. By clearentertainermanagement on Mar 7, 2010 | Reply

   Bad like verbal or physical abuse? My advice would be: LEAVE. Bad like arguing a lot and not sharing house or child rearing duties? My advice would be: find a marriage counselor and learn to give and take during each situation that each day brings.

5. By doer on Mar 7, 2010 | Reply

   Hi,
   Try getting help from a counselling agency.
   If you still love each other, you can find ways and ways of working out solutions and save the relation.
   If you think you dont anymore love each other, and you cant save the relation whatever you do, decide to move on.
   If you decide to part,
   1. Make sure you do whatever is needed for the child to have a good life and still love and affection from both its parents.
   2. Make sure you dont start blame games or abusive sessions with each other. This will only affect you more. Think that the relation failed, not either of you and hence both are at fault. Remember the love with which you started the relation and also had the baby, try to show respect for that and keep things decent.
   3. Make all the arrangments with each other in a respectful way and part. If you need time to have your own place or income, ask for time before moving on.
   4. After parting, make sure you dont jump into a relation with a new person until you heal your heart fully and you settle down well.
   5. Dont feel guilty about yourself. Dont tell bad things to the child about the father. Reassure the child that the parting is not because of the child but because certain things did not go well.
   6. Take care of yourself and find the mental strength to go through this. Keep yourself comforted by doing things you like, or by taking support from good friends or family.
   You will do fine. I will pray for you. All the best..
   Merry Christmas and A Very Happy New Year to You and Baby..

6. By Colleen O on Mar 7, 2010 | Reply

   What do you mean by bad relationship with a child does the relationship involve the child or is the child the product of the relationship?