Advice for dating a woman way too fine to be dating you?

I’ve been seeing this ridiculously good looking gal lately, normally I wouldn’t do it because it just doesn’t make sense. But She’s got a great personality and all. Can a relationship work when one of you is way the hell too good looking to be with the other?

I’m way hotter than my boyfriend, but I don’t care!

just kidding.

Honestly though, it’s perfectly understandable to feel that way. I actually felt that I wasn’t attractive enough for my boyfriend, so we had a chat about it. Turns out, he was feeling the same way.

So what’s the deal? It’s a combination of being attracted and feeling insecure.

Why do you feel you’re not good enough for this person?

Maybe she’s just as attracted to you, or maybe she’s more interested in your personality, or maybe a combination of the two!

The point is, this relationship should start off being built on trust and that means you’ll just have to trust her to be attracted to you if she’s still seeing you.

If you’re still feeling this way, go ahead and talk to her about it directly. It’s a great way to get to know someone, ease into intimacy and allow yourself to feel that vulnerability that brings you closer to someone you’re attracted to. Oh, and it makes great pillow talk.

I need some dating advice please?

ok, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and i found out just recently that he cheated on me with his ex. This isn’t the first time i found out about something like this. I really care for him. and i don’t know what i should do. He really is a great guy, i just can’t trust him anymore.

I would really appreciate it if you could give me some advice.

sometimes it is hard to let go of someone you’ve liked for a while, and even though you care for him, it is obvious he is not totally devoted to you. I say you should talk with him, let him know that he can’t do this to you anymore, and break up with him. It’s hard for people to let go sometimes and step out of their comfort zone, but I think after he has repeatedly done this that it is time for you to confront the problem.

Why do people rely so heavily on Yahoo! Answers for dating advice?

I just don't understand it.
Any reasonable answers?

i love making fun of people and how they post their pictures on here.
most of the people that post pics on here are very ugly.

Why do some people continually get into bad relationships with users, abusers, and addicts and others don’t?

Some people are attracted or drawn to these kinds of people because of past tramatic experiences. Like if your mom dated abusers all the time then it is likely that her kids would be drawn to these people with out even realizing it. If you find yourself dating abusers etc then I would talk to a councilor and try dating someone that doesn't 'excite' you cause it's probably a bad guy.

Hope this helps!

Am I doomed to have bad romantic relationships?

I realize that my relationship with my dad has a lot to do with my romantic relationships? I have had many that just haven’t worked out. I’m 26 and have yet to have a serious relationship. Not even one to last longer than 6 months. My relationship with my dad has always been weird. My parents are married so I grew up with him in our house. He’s just not an affectionate person and emotionally unavailable and can be just down right mean. We’ve never had the traditional father-daughter relationship. I felt growing up that he just flat out didn’t like me.I know this has had an effect because I have a had a hard time maintaining relationships. Such as not recognizing when a guy stops liking me. How to tell if he likes me or asking for what I need from a relationship. I just makes me feel just plain guilty.

What gives? Does this mean that I’m probably stuck with stupid relationships? How do I change this behavior?

first let me explain romantic how that works!
romance only comes when its new, its unavailable, its hidden, its not out there for sale!
now the way to have a good romantic relationship is: to not always be available, not always be there for them (so to speak you don’t have to give your entire self away the first second, it gets unexciting and unattractive!) that’s when the men usually stop being interested its boring they can always have you. they give you a call your there, they ask you for something you put it out there for them, this is not called being a good person its called not giving the ability to have romance that’s all! don’t be with him all the time! give him space to breath give him a chane he should be calling you too!
that’s also how you will know if a man is not interested in you any longer, he just wont be calling you!
so with your father the same don’t be there so much for him, let him miss you! let him call you! and i hope it will all work out there for you!

work this out! and you will thank me!
much success on that its hard the first bit, but it pays off its a good feeling to feel they are interested in you for not always being there!
(absence makes a heart grow fonder)

Would you say girls go through more bad relationships than guys do before finding the one?

I think so but I want opinions on this subject.

i say yes
since early on they lack self confidence and thus seek validation from guys
and more often than that they pick the wrong and stay with them
hoping it will work out,
then they go on to the next and repeat the same mistake
until one day they realize it's them that is sabotaging their relationship by having low self esteem and staying when they should be cutting their losses, learning from the mistake, not repeating it, building up the self, self validation and then dating

Can a marriage survive infidelity if the husband hasn’t ended the affair and is it best to just ignore affair?

Does it mean that wife has accepted affair if she didn’t file for divorce?

Unfortunately she is living a nightmare. Doesn’t mean she accepted it. And a marriage can survive if both are willing to work hard, be honest and restore trust after the husband has ended affair and re commit himself to his wife.

Can hypnotherapy help people change and not to commit infidelity?

What I would like to know is does hypnotherapy really work and will it work to stop people committing adultry when they really want to change and hate what they have done?
People say it stops people smoking etc, but will it work in this case and how does it work?

If someone keeps on cheating then they are not sorry for there previous act of infidelity. That person needs to do it on there own and realize that something like hypnotherapy is not a magical cure.

How can I get over the hurt of an infidelity?

I have been married for 20 years and about 3 years ago my husband was unfaithful to me. He denies it, but I know that he was. I still can’t get over his betrayal. What should I do to get over that?

Well if he denies it still, it will be hard for you to get over it. He needs to acknowledge his mistake and apologize and earn your trust again. But I do hope you have more than a gut feeling here because this is a huge accusation to make and if he really did not cheat, the false accusation is damaging to the relationship. Good luck to you!

Mary in Camden, MI

Help with dating plz Guys or Girls i dont care?

im 13in nj
Im from a very small town with a small middle skool and i really want a girl friend (i kno dating aint everything) but every girl at my skool are wrong for me
how can i meet new girls
escpically girls who like wat i like (as in metal music, emo personallity, dark , but still nice (iknow im weirdish))

Well who says you need a girlfriend. And our not weird i like metal music too but anyway there are a lot of other girls who likes guys like you. (trust me i have a billion freinds who love emo dudes)